只能说这种女人太贱，第一次被打，可怜；第2次被打，自找。我比我老婆还更要女权主义。家暴打人者，离婚，没收财产，卷铺盖走人。 -mikesmith(老猫) @哈密尔顿华人论坛:哈密尔顿枫下论坛 The Rolia Forum of Hamilton

枫下家园 / 幸福家庭 / I am done with her. All sympathy - GONE! She goes back to Chris!! Can you explain this abuser/abusee situation? Our Chinese women are more likely doing that based on traditional value. But this does not make any sense!! -mikesmith(老猫); 2009-3-6 {441} (#5096328@0)

Husbands and wives in happy family here, can anyone, anyone explain this to me? it is so illogical. she is 21, has millions of fans, has endless $$$, has talents, has everything.. -mikesmith(老猫); 2009-3-6 {294} (#5096335@0)
why does she go back to someone hit her so badly in public just a month ago??
Does she know the abuser will never change, based on millions and millions of tragic facts happening around the world.

She should have known better. girl. Hit her once, shame on him, Hit her twice, shame on her!

做女人真难。前一阵这儿有人被家暴了，向警察求救想离开丈夫，这儿的男人群起而攻之。现在有人要回到施暴者身边，又给说shame on you. -newdonkey(me); 2009-3-6 {80} (#5096410@0)
其实同意你的说法，的确家暴是很难改悔的。只是对那些不许女人报警的男士们鄙视一下。
http://www.rolia.net/f/post.php?f=0&b=50&c=5050&tno=576824&pno=5093915&

只能说这种女人太贱，第一次被打，可怜；第2次被打，自找。我比我老婆还更要女权主义。家暴打人者，离婚，没收财产，卷铺盖走人。 -mikesmith(老猫); 2009-3-6 (#5097067@0)

实在想不通， -tyrsbw(体验人生百味); 2009-3-6 {108} (#5097560@0)
LP疼都来不及怎么能打呢？
哪怕她主动要求你打她，你也不能让她痛，不舒服么。

也许有人觉得痛才舒服？不知道。

看到兄长这样说话，我都觉得难过呢。可见，被虐待者的路很漫长，社会现在这么发达了，但对被虐待妇女的理解还是比较原始和不存在的 -newyeartoronto(松鼠回家啦); 2009-3-6 (#5097625@0)

这样的虐待一般都有周期：虐待发生，；然后风平浪静，甜蜜恩爱（虐待人会百般宠爱赔罪），又叫做蜜月期；然后虐待又开始；又蜜月期。。。。反反复复，就那样。而被虐待的人多数相信虐待者在蜜月期的惭悔，原谅他们，重新投入他们的怀抱 -newyeartoronto(松鼠回家啦); 2009-3-6 (#5097622@0)

非也非也。要人尊重先要自尊自重。一遍一遍回到施虐者身边就是极低的Self Esteem/IQ/EQ. 所谓可怜之人必有可恨之处。 -mikesmith(老猫); 2009-3-6 {76} (#5098134@0)
当然对施虐者也绝不能手软。不能因为受虐者愿意受虐待就听之任之。赞成77的说法。

兄长好，嘿嘿。没有办法了，大众的看法要慢慢改变的。她已经是受害人了，而不理解她的人这样看她，会DOUBLE VICTIMIZE她了 -newyeartoronto(松鼠回家啦); 2009-3-9 (#5102488@0)

CBC radio will talk about this in half an hour -mikesmith(老猫); 2009-3-12 (#5109313@0)

快两个多星期前的事了，她老爸也表示支持她的决定，大概有什么不为人知的内情吧？ -baalinca(spring's coming); 2009-3-12 (#5109519@0)

这样的节目我一般不看的，因为太痛苦了，想帮助他们都不可能，帮助的人觉得很无助，我不想再次被无助的感受VISITED -newyeartoronto(松鼠回家啦); 2009-3-12 (#5109679@0)

建议肉联的男士们到帮助被虐待妇女的机构义工，了解一下这个现象，不过，很多被虐待的妇女不接受男性的帮助，不过，去接受一下教育，了解一下也应该 -newyeartoronto(松鼠回家啦); 2009-3-6 (#5097633@0)

咳，这里又不是印度巴基斯坦阿富汗，社会上有那么多机构组织帮助受害者，更多的恐怕是心理问题。这位Rihanna, 就更不是没有 mean 的问题了 -mikesmith(老猫); 2009-3-6 (#5097678@0)

看吧，兄长这样的专业人士都这样认为了，教育公众的路还很漫长了，嘿嘿。这边主流这种机构很多，华人社区有协群中心，设立了一个帮助虐待者的华人男子小组，帮助虐待者停止虐待 -newyeartoronto(松鼠回家啦); 2009-3-6 (#5097722@0)

还没有，快了。 -mikesmith(老猫); 2009-3-6 {335} (#5098156@0)
People magazine has claimed that Brown and Rihanna have since reunited and, after a brief retreat at Sean "Diddy" Comb's Miami mansion, are back in LA to face the charges together.

Rihanna - you need more than an umbrella, to quote the title of your hit single, you need a restraining order and to get that jerk out of your life.

she looks like the young version of Whitney Houston. -veronicacan(vera); 2009-3-6 {138} (#5098404@0)
Hope she will wake up soon. Whitney has lost everything, the beauty, the talent, and the money. Don't want to see history repeats itself.
子非鱼, 焉知鱼之乐, 看过一个电影, 才知道什么叫受虐狂, 也许她就是呢, 所以那也许就是她的乐趣. 既然你能接受同性恋, 这种恋情有什么不可以接受? -mickeyh(mickey); 2009-3-12 (#5109467@0)

明白兄长恨铁不成钢的感受，不过，我觉得兄长这样的看法应该比她先生的痛打更让她痛苦的 -newyeartoronto(松鼠回家啦); 2009-3-12 (#5109683@0)

@Hamilton